Throw away one thing a day

My Inverse Bucket List calls for getting rid of stuff. But how?

According to Marie Kondo and her KonMari method, you must do all your “tidying up” in one go, or else you won’t do it at all. Tidying up little by little doesn’t work, she says.

However, tidying up everything in one go can be a daunting task – more so emotionally and psychologically than physically. Looking at a slew of trinkets and mementos from 20-30 years ago, deciding what to keep and what to let go, can be draining. So big is this psychological barrier that one never ventures into the endeavor.

What if instead of facing — and perpetually avoiding — this gargantuan task, I break it down into tiny morsels? One thing a day, one decision a day, every day. Simple, easy, manageable.

Move over, Marie! There’s a new guru in town! 🙂

Me on Day One™: Getting rid of this collection of 3.5” AOL and CompuServe floppies.

AOL and CompuServe 3.5″ floppies from the 1990s

Inverse bucket list

In keeping with my 2024 New Year’s resolutions, I started an inverse bucket list – a Marie-Kondo-style list of things to get rid of. Not material things. Mostly mental and intangible things like maintaining presence on a social network, or a long-standing vague intention to do something.

For example, I deleted my LinkedIn account. I stopped using Twitter, and rarely look at Facebook. Just today I let a domain name registration lapse – a registration I have been carrying for years with the intention to “do something” with it. Today I decided that I never will. It was a relief.

Checking off items on my inverse bucket list frees up time and resources to dedicate to my bucket list proper. The idea is that as my bucket list gets closer to complete, my inverse bucket list gets closer to depleted. In the end the bucket list is full, the inverse bucket list is empty.